Sexting Messages For Him Before Bed

If you're crazy in love with your partner, you probably want them thinking of you day and night. A goodnight text message then, can plant thoughts of you in their minds that lasts right through until morning. Unlike daytime messages, goodnight messages are a little more special because they show you're thinking of your partner in a romantic, attached way rather than purely for sexual purposes.

There's an art to these midnight texts. They can be cute, sexy, romantic or downright filthy, and which one you choose depends on your kind of relationship. But if you want your man's thoughts running on overdrive with you at the center of them, read on, because we've got your bedtime sexting guide right here.

We have even more sexting examples for him that you can use any time of the day, but read on for the hottest texts to send your partner before they fall asleep tonight.

Sexy Goodnight Text Messages

If you want your partner's sweet dreams to involve acts of sexual violation upon your body, a sexy text message should be your first point of all. These messages will get him rock hard before he goes to sleep, and might even force him to take matters into his own hands before he nods off.

1. Have you ever had a sex dream about me? Maybe tonight's the night. Sleep tight!
2. Wanna see what I'm wearing to bed tonight?
3. My favorite bedtime story involves you, me, and no clothes.
4. Will I be in your dreams? What will we be doing together, I wonder…
5. Hey babe, I was just thinking about that time we ____.
6. I'm imagining what would happen if you were here right now. Spoiler alert: Not sleeping.
7. Help me have dirty dreams tonight and tell me a slutty goodnight story.
8. My bed feels empty without you in it, so do I.
9. Just thought you should know you're my favorite dirty thought… goodnight babe!
10. Sweet dreams, my love!! I get the sugary shivers down my spine whenever I think about how you’re mine, and I’m yours.
11. Even if the size of your bed isn't as big as you, don't stop yourself from dreaming king size.
12. I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you touching me. Sweet dreams!
13. If you were in bed with me right now you wouldn’t be beside me, you’d be inside me. Just saying! Sweet dreams.
14. Good night, handsome. I’ll be dreaming about that hot body and cute face.
15. I don’t mind having even the scariest nightmares, as long as I am woken up by you.

Cute Good Night Messages

Think of cute goodnight messages as a soft kiss on the forehead while your partner is half asleep. They're not super explicit nor are they too lovey-dovey. They're somewhere at the center of the good night message spectrum. Send your partner these messages to put a smile on their face before they hit the hay.

1. Good night. Sleep tight. Don't let the bedbugs bite. (That's my job!)
2. I'm having a hard time falling asleep, because I can't stop thinking of you.
3. I hope you have sweet delicious dreams (that may or may not involve me).
4. I hate saying goodnight. I'd rather say good morning.
5. Wish I could fall asleep in your arms.
6. Good night to the most amazing guy in the world. I know I will have sweet dreams tonight; my only nightmares are when you are away from me.
7. I sent a goodnight kiss through the phone. Did you get it?
8. It's gonna be hard to fall asleep without your… snoring. Just kidding, sweet dreams honey!
9. I'm about to turn in, so I just wanted you to be the last person I speak to before falling asleep.
10. I wish I was falling asleep next to you.
11. I really wish that instead of this pillow my head was on your chest right now. Night, babe.
12. Words can’t explain how much I miss you, but some random emojis might. So here you go! [Insert random emojis] Goodnight!

Romantic Good Night Messages

Ready to show him your romantic side? There's a difference between romantic texts and sexy text messages, because these romantic texts don't explicitly stating that you want to ravish him. They're more for helping build hot, intimate connections and laying the foundations for a healthy long-term relationship.

1. Sweet dreams tonight. I'll see you first thing in the morning.
2. Good night honey. I hope you have pleasant dreams (with me in them!).
3. It's a cold night tonight, I could do with someone to keep me warm... Don't get any strange ideas!
4. Every time I say goodnight, it hurts me a little, because it means that I won't be able to talk to you, even if it is for a few hours. So….can't wait to see you again.
5. I've got you and only you in my heart.
6. “I want to fall asleep faster so that we can be together sooner.
7. Remember that time we [fill in the blank]? We should do that again sometime.
8. The best thing to help me fall asleep is TV, hot chocolate and naughty thoughts about you.
9. I just wanted to let you know, I have never met anyone like you before. Goodnight, babe.
10. I noticed something tonight. My bed is way more comfortable with you in it.
11. I love my bed, but I love you more.
12. I need my big/little spoon.

Flirty Good Night Messages

Flirty goodnight texts are a way to light up your partner's imagination and get him thinking naughty things about you without being overly explicit. You don't take things all the way, but you plant the suggestion of sex in his head so that his dirty mind fills in the gaps. These are the best flirty goodnight texts to send your partner tonight.

1. If I close my eyes tight enough, I can feel your gentle touch all over me. You make me feel alive. But for now, goodnight and sleep tight.
2. Did I ever tell you that I sleep naked? Too bad you're not here! Sweet dreams.
3. Go dream about all the filthy things you're gonna do to me.
4. I had a VERY naughty dream last night. Maybe tonight will be even better? Goodnight babe!
5. I wish I could give you a good night kiss tonight... but not on your lips.
6. I just wanted to text you to remind you that I'm absolutely crazy about you.
7. It's freezing in here. I wish I had your body pressed against me to warm me up.
8. Go to bed and dream about all the naughty things you're going to do to me when we see each other next.
9. Name a body part, and I'll send a picture of it.
10. I can't stop thinking about the time we [fill in the blank]. Maybe we should recreate it one night?
11. Sweet dreams. I hope you wae wake up with "morning would." As in, what I "would" do to you in the morning...
12. Hey guess what… I’m wearing that thing you like. Goodnight!

Long Distance Good Night Messages

Sexting is a vital component of a long distance relationship. They're crucial to keeping your relationship white hot, and help maintain that sense of excitement until the next time you can meet in person. These kind of relationships can be challenging, but these long-distance dirty texts will help you out where it matters.

1. Hopefully, I’ll be in your dreams tonight, as you are in mine every night! Love you, babe. Have a good night!
2. Good night sweetie, sleep tight and think about me, as I am of you. I cannot wait to wake up next to you soon. Sending you love and kisses.
3. Just wanted to let you know that you mean the world to me, and not sleeping next to you is my least favorite thing. Sweet dreams, honey, love you!
4. If you have trouble sleeping tonight, that’s probably because you are awake in my dreams. All kidding aside, sleep tight babe, I’ll see you very soon.
5. Just wanted to let you know that you mean the world to me, and not sleeping next to you is my least favorite thing.
6. Can't wait to see you again . . . I'm going to take you into the bedroom and . . . well, you know.
7. I'm in bed over here, you're in bed over there… One of us is in the wrong place.
8. Hey, babe. I woke up thinking about [insert a sexy memory the two of you share] and I can't wait to repeat it next time we're together.
9. Hopefully, I’ll be in your dreams tonight, as you are in mine every night! Love you, babe.
10. I'm going to tell you three things I would do to you if I were there right now. I want you to imagine them while you fall asleep.
11. My favorite step in my nighttime routine is texting you. Miss you.
12. I was just listening to our song and wishing you could be here with me.

Sexy Good Night Messages For New Relationships

Navigating a new relationship can be super exciting, but also quite tricky. You want to show that you're a freak between the sheets, but at the same time you don't want to go too far. Likewise, you want to prove that you're long-term relationship material, so finding the right balance in your good night sexts is important.

1. Babe, if you were here with me right now, I would rip off your clothes and do insane things to your body. But you're not so... sleep tight!
2. Good night, love…. Just a reminder, if I'm in your dreams later, I like the rough stuff.
3. I've got all this energy and no one to do with it. I mean... nothing to do with it.
4. I just wanted to send you a quick text to wish you goodnight. I know I just saw you, but I miss you already. Can’t help it!
5. Today has been so draining and exhausting. But the good thing is I get to see your beautiful face real soon!
6. I'm going to fall asleep... right after I've looked at this sexy photo of you.
7. Before I go to sleep, I just wanted to let you know how badly I want you. OK, goodnight.
8. Just a sexy goodnight text to let you know I'll be thinking about you in every position before I go to sleep.
9. I bet you're as beautiful when you’re sleeping as you are when you’re on a date with me.
10. I've got a ton of different picture messages to send you, but I'll save them for another time.
11. Even after spending the day with you, I just can't get enough of you!
12. Hey, I just wanted to make sure you were the last person I talked to today. I’ll text you when I wake up so you’re the first person I talk to as well.