We might not think it, but texting plays a huge role in our lives - especially within the realms of love and sex. Chances are that texting is the primary way you communicate with your partner or potential partners, whether you're discussing movies, your daily lives, date plans or sex. The latter is particularly important, which is why it pays to know your way around the world of sexting.
For most people, our phones are the first thing we grab when we're in the mood for fun. Phones not only give us access to endless pornography, but they let us get sexty with real people, be them exclusive partners or not. Dirty talk is as much as a part of the sexual experience as dating and foreplay, so at some point or another, you're gonna need to know how to turn your man on using only the written word.
If you're looking for a few ideas about getting your boyfriend, husband or male fuck buddy hot and bothered, we've put together a vast sexting-for-him guide. Whether you want to flirt, make him smile or get him excited downstairs, our sexy text messages will help you do all that and more.
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210 Sexting Examples To Drive Him Crazy
In the below examples, we've got a sexy text example for every occasion. Remember to start slow and gradually build up to the raunchier messages for maximum effect. To blow up your dirty talk game, try these 210 sexting ideas.
Sweet Sexting Examples
Sometimes you might just want to remind your man that you're always there for him. These dirty texts will do just that, but they're also infused with a little eroticism for good measure.
- Do you have any idea how cute you are?
- I think you should get out of the house more, and I think it should be with me.
- This is your daily reminder that I like you.
- Have I successfully made my way into your thoughts yet, or do I need to pester you some more?
- I’ve been trying really hard to get your attention. Will you put me out of my misery and go out with me?
- Guess what’s going through my mind right now? I’ll give you a hint: you’ll be shaking!
- Whenever your name pops up on my phone screen, my knees weaken.
- I’d like to have an opinion on one of my pictures… Do you have enough time to give me your opinion.
- Wanna know what I wanna do with you later? Too bad! You'll have to wait and find out.
- There are a lot of places where I’d like your mouth to be, but on mine is my favorite place.
- If you were able to ask for three wishes from me, what would they be?
- I was just sitting here wondering if I’m your type…because you’re definitely mine.
- So, are we gonna talk about why you haven’t asked me out yet?
- Let’s stop pretending you don’t like me and just meet me in my bed, ok?
- I really like this guy, but I don’t know how to tell him. How would you like a girl to tell you she likes you?
- I figured us out today! I think we should just be friends with sexual tension 😉
- You are a real work of art. You arouse all my senses and give me pleasure like no other.
- I wouldn’t mind giving you a love bite today.
- Shall we look for some sexy clothes together this weekend?
- What are you doing for dinner tonight? I thought about getting reservations for my bedroom but wanted to make sure you were available.
- Just read that caffeine can boost a woman's libido. Is that why you keep inviting me to coffee?
Flirty Sexting Examples
So, you want to let that hot guy you're chatting with know that you're up for some raunchy fun. But at the same time, you don't want to take things too far - at least not yet. These flirty texts will do the trick.
- I thought you’d like to know I’m hot and bothered.
- Do you picture me naked as often as I picture you naked?
- I had a dream about you last night, but I can't tell you what it was.
- Are you as good as sex in real life as you are in my head?
- I don’t know what to dress up for you tonight – my boobs or my butt.
- Can you think of any fun things we could do together? 😉
- I want you to eat me from breakfast, if you know what I mean.
- This is embarrassing, but my zipper is stuck…can you come over to help me take my dress off?
- You look great today. How do I know? Because you look good every day.
- I think back to all the times we made love… it was just too good. I want more.
- I have found some sexy sex stuff in a magazine that I would love try on you in the bed tonight.
- Remember that crazy thing I told you about that I wanted to try with you . . . I think tonight might be the night.
- Quick question: what do you do when there's someone you can't stop fantasizing about, but you have no idea how to talk to them about it?
- Who gave you the right to be so sexy?
- Men are visual creatures, right? What part of me do you want to see first?
- When I think back to the last time we were in bed, I still get chills in my stomach. And lower…
- Do you know what my favorite thing in the world is? The second word of this text.
- I'm listening to a song that makes me think totally dirty thoughts about you!
- I had a naughty dream last night, and guess who was in it? I'll give you a hint. I'm texting him right now.
- I’m so stressed. Would you like to come over and help me relax?
- I would like to invite you to go out with me this weekend. But, I can't guarantee that I can keep my hands to myself...
Sexy Sexting Examples
Pure sexiness never goes out of style. These sexy texts will let your man know that you're in the mood to get wild, but will do so in a subtle and teasing manner. These are ideal bait to lure him in for a more explicit session.
- Do you have any idea how often I think about having sex with you?
- Today I’ve thought about you naked all day. I need to see you tonight to get it out of my system.
- I need you between my legs right now.
- I really want to pleasure myself. Wanna give me a hand?
- I have whipped cream. Any idea where to put it?
- Should we have phone sex, or do you just wanna come round and do me?
- Let me be clear: when I see you later, I'm going to undress you button by button. I'm going to unzip your pants and take them off leg by leg. I'm going to take off your boxers and throw them against the wall. What happens next is all up to you.
- My roommates are gone this weekend. We can be as loud as we want tonight, and I want to be loud.
- I would do anything to trade being at work with being in your bed right now.
- I'll invite you over on one condition: you may not keep your hands to yourself. In fact, you need to tell me exactly where you're going to put them.
- I’ve never wanted to explore someone’s body as much as I do with you.
- Do you wanna see a picture of what I’m doing? I’ll give you a hint: I’m naked.
- I’ll give you a clue. Tonight, I want a special guest between my legs.
- Currently, I am sending you texts using one hand because the other one is busy somewhere else. Guess where it is?
- We might not be in the same room, but your still do bad things to my imagination.
- Would you be interested in burying your cock deep inside me in a few hours?
- You should probably clear your schedule for tomorrow morning because I plan on staying up late with you tonight. Very late.
- Dirty texts aren't gonna do it for me tonight... I think I need the real thing.
- Send me a picture! Of course I would prefer something a little…daring!
- If you're not busy later, I was hoping to make passionate love to you. I hope that's okay with you.
- What is your favorite memory of us in bed?
Dirty Sexting Examples
So, you want to give him the good stuff. These dirty text messages you can send once your sexting session is in full swing. These aren't the kind of messages to open with. Only send them once the sexual tension is sufficiently built.
- Are you touching yourself thinking about me?
- I want you to take me from behind tonight.
- Wanna workout together today? And I don’t mean at the gym.
- I need to change my underwear from thinking about you just now.
- My legs are spread and I’m waiting for you.
- The thought of you taking me in your arms and having me just makes me so wet.
- Guess what I’m touching right now? I’ll give you a hint: it’s my tight, wet pussy.
- Is it bad that every time I see you I just want you to pin me up against a wall and have my, right then and there?
- I’m going to make you feel like you’ve never felt before.
- Do you have plans tonight, or can you come over and put it in my ass?
- Admit it – you’re thinking about me naked right now, aren’t you?
- Be honest – I’m the best sex you’ve ever had, aren’t I?
- I feel like something is missing. It’s you between my legs.
- Would you prefer me in lingerie or fully naked when I come over tonight?
- I was at home, thinking about you, and then ooops, I was naked!
- Just to make things clear... If you were here right now, we wouldn’t be hugging or kissing or even cuddling. You know why?
- I text a girlfriend about a threesome and got an instant response. Would you be interested?
- I feel so much pent up frustration today. Want to come to mine after work and get rid of it for me?
- Can you do math? What does my mouth plus your hard cock equal?
- Believe me, I'm having all kinds of naughty thoughts.
- I’m at my work desk right now and it looks a little boring. I’m just thinking how much better it would look if you were bending me over it.
Kinky Sexting Examples
Maybe the vanilla stuff just isn't for you. What if you like it a little more extreme, more taboo? If you and your sexting partner are into the wilder side of sex, these kinky texts will get the job done. Note, don't use these if you've only just started dating someone!
- You can do whatever you want to me tonight.
- I’m tying you to the bed and blindfolding you when you get home.
- Oops. I think I text the wrong person a sexy pic. Wanna make me pay?
- I made a big mess today. I think you'll have to give me a big spanking tonight...
- Let’s roleplay tonight. I’ll be the sexy teacher and you can be the naughty student that needs a spanking.
- If you're good today, then maybe I'll give you a sexy surprise before the day ends.
- Wanna fuck me while I'm tied to the bed?
- I want you to fuck me like you've just caught me dirty sexting my ex. What would you do to make me pay?
- Just a reminder. Don’t let your hips stop tonight.
- I want to be spanked… I’ve been a bad girl and I need to be taught a lesson!
- I like it when you are in charge. It makes me wet.
- I want to ride you. I want to ride your face and your cock.
- Do you like sex in the dark? I’m blindfolding you tonight.
- I've got a lot of sexy things on my mind and it's your fault.
- I am ready if you invite me to take tour of your insides and make love to you throughout this sexy night.
- Next time when I see you, I want you to make me as messy as you can.
- Tonight, you're going to be my human sex toy.
- I want to go over every inch of your body and make you quiver. But without letting you reach orgasm… Pure torture.
- What if I walked in the bedroom in a PVC dress, leather boots and a cane in my hand? It doesn't matter what you'd want, because you wouldn't have a choice.
- I want to be your submissive little slut the next time we're together. You can do whatever you want to me.
- I want you to spank me until my ass is red raw. Then I want you to take me from behind.
Plain Hot Sexting Messages
Light a fire under your sex life with these scorching hot dirty texts. If you're in a long distance relationship, these messages will have him thinking of you every second of the day until he can see you next.
- I’d tell you to guess what color underwear I have on but I’m not wearing any.
- Remember when we broke the bed? Do you wanna do it again?
- If you could have my mouth anywhere on your body, where would you want it to be?
- Tell me your dirtiest fantasy.
- All I want is for you to be here, with your hands up my skirt right now.
- I’ve managed to drip ice-cream all over my body. If only someone could lick it off me.
- My hands can’t stop thinking about you.
- It sounds weird but I couldn’t stop myself from thinking about us last night. It kept replaying over and over again...
- I don’t know if you know this, but I think about you every night before I go to sleep… with my hands… I’m doing it right now.
- I can’t wait to get into your pants and see you for all you’ve got.
- What’s your favorite thing we ever did together in bed?
- I can't stop thinking about all the dirty things I want to do with you.
- I want you to take me as soon as I walk in that door tonight. Take me hard.
- Tell me next time you jerk off. I want to help you finish.
- I had the dirtiest, sexist, and wettest dream last night. Want to hear it over text or at home?
- When I see a dirty text from you, I instantly get wet for you.
- I just thought of a new position that we could definitely give a try!
- Have you ever had a wet dream about me? Be honest…I had one about you this morning.
- How many sexy pictures do I need to send before you come over here and fuck me?
- If you guess the color of my underwear, tonight I’ll do a striptease.
- I got eight hours of sleep last night in preparation for the rager that I'm preparing to have with you starting at 8 p.m. this evening.
Humor and sex go hand in hand. The sessions you remember tend to ones where A) it was really good sex or B) something funny happened. The following sext messages are no less raunchy, but there's a mild element of quirkiness in there too.
- The first thing I think about in the morning is you. And you might be naked.
- I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but we have a lot of sexual tension. What do you suggest we do about it?
- I have a surprise for you…in my pants.
- I really like bananas, and you know what they say about girls like that…
- Send me a sexy picture... ideally of Chris Hemsworth, but you'll do too 🙂
- I know you’re thinking about something filthy. I’m not saying you should stop, but that you should share your thoughts with me.
- I had the funniest thing happen to me today, I forgot to put on underwear! Can you imagine?
- I know I’m the best sex you’ve ever had, but how good?
- I just wanted to let you know that I'm picturing you naked right now, and dang, you look good.
- You make me want to drop my panties whenever I'm around you.
- I have a promise for you: I promise to always be there for you. Yes, I will always be by your side. Or on you… But it’s the same thing!
- I really want to have sex with a guy who looks like you. Do you have any suggestions?
- I forgot my bra at home today. Will you come hold my boobs?
- So, I'm outside. I'm not wearing two crucial pieces of clothing, but no one is calling the cops on me. Can you guess what's missing? Also, it's not my shoes.
- Do songs ever remind you of people? I’m listening to “I wanna fuck you in the ass” and thinking about you. 🙂
- Y YOU SO HOT 'N SEXY. YOU MAKE ME TALK LIKE CAVEWOMAN.
- Would you find it sexy if you found a naked woman in your bed?
- How many women have you slept with in your life? Want to add one more to the list?
- I'm just lying in bed in a tight tank top and short shorts texting this really amazing guy.
- You’re the hottest thing I’ve seen… today.
- Your body is so hot it's making me thirsty. Was that sexy? Because I'm not wearing any clothes. Okay, that has to be sexy now.
Cute Sexting Messages
It's fun to play it coy sometimes. Sexting doesn't have to just involve filthy sexual fantasies and awesome ideas for your next public fuck session. Start sexting these cute messages and you'll find it just as exhilerating as getting downright dirty.
- I really want to suck a popsicle or… something.
- I need to take my clothes off. Can you help?
- I want to lick something. Can you guess what?
- Do you like it when girls hit on you? Should I do it now?
- Imagine that my bed is a football field. I'm the football, and you're running for a touchdown. See, I do like sports!
- Happy Columbus Day! I thought we could celebrate by exploring my bedroom and discovering new places on my body.
- Do you believe in love at first sight? Never mind, I like you. Let’s have sex!
- Do I need to write a cheesy pick-up line, or can we just jump straight to dating?
- Be naked when I get home.
- On the agenda for tonight: polite conversation followed immediately by impolite bedroom antics.
- Kissing burns calories. I can help you burn all of them off your body.
- I want to go to sleep, but I’m not tired at all. Do you want to come over and do something physical?
- 101 things I like about you: 1. You're hot. 2. You're hot. 3. You're hot. You get the picture.
- Should I pretend that I’ve sent you the wrong text, or can I just tell you I like you?
- Do you prefer black or red? So I know what color lingerie I should wear tonight.
- I need some relationship advice. There's a guy I want to to bury his hard dick inside me. How can I get my point across?
- I want to put my head on your chest, and my lips on your neck.
- I can't wait to see what you think of my new outfit.
- I've got a million sexting ideas I'd love to share with you.
- I was listening to Taylor Swift today and was totally thinking about you. JK. Just wanted an excuse to text you to say I think you're darn handsome.
- It's the subtle things you do that make me so in love with you.
Romantic Sexting Examples
Your love life is on fire and you want your partner to know this. Romantic messages serve quite a few purposes, and they're especially great for keeping that spark alive in long distance relationships. It's true - dirty texting can be romantic too.
- I can’t help but feel like we’d both be so much happier if you were in my bed right now.
- I want your hands on me. I’ll let you guess where.
- I am imagining all the things I could do to you if you were here. I know that I have the ability to fulfill all your fantasies. Too bad you are so far away!
- Who’s the hottest woman you’ve ever slept with? And why is it me?
- I'm losing interest in work because I just want to be in bed with you.
- I think we need to go sexy underwear shopping together.
- I can’t get enough of your gaze, your gentle caresses and your fiery kisses. All this is the definition of happiness for me.
- Nothing gets me wetter than thinking about you, baby.
- The bed feels empty without you.
- My lips are burning because I have a deep and uncontrollable need to tell you I love you and I want you.
- I miss feeling your body beside mine in bed.
- It's so hot being in a real relationship for once.
- If I could do anything to you tonight to make you happy, what would it be?
- What’s your favorite memory about our lovemaking?
- I just need you to hold me tight, to be one with you. I want to smell your masculine scent and embrace you, never to let you go again.
- You've taken my love life to levels I never thought would be possible!
- Are things interesting enough for you or do we need another dirty weekend in a hotel?
- My love for you is too big to fit into one text message.
- I can't wait to see you tonight.
- Everyone says a long term relationship just ruins your libido, but I think we're proving them wrong 🙂
- I never stop thinking about you.
Bonus Text Messages
These miscellaneous naughty messages can be used in a wide variety of situations. There's no particular time or place to send them, they're just great sexting ideas for building sexual tension with your lover.
- What would you do to me if you were here now?
- How hard do you want to do it tonight?
- Send me nudes and I’ll send you mine.
- I have a new vibrator, it’s just such a shame it’s nowhere near as good as you.
- Do you think about me when you wake up? Is that why you’re always hard in the morning?
- I want to be your personal fix of pleasure. I want to make you feel like you’ve never felt before.
- I’m not saying we should have a threesome…but my best friend is really hot…just saying.
- Are you, by any chance, in the mood to talk dirty with someone? Because I'm happy to offer my availability.
- I want to make you moan so much the neighbors can hear.
- My hands are busy, but they took a break to send you this message
- Do you have any fetishes or fantasies that need completing?
- I want to walk in on you jerking yourself off, so I can stand over you and rub my pussy
- I want you to take me so hard tonight that I can barely walk in the morning.
- If you could do it anywhere in the world, where would you like to fuck me?
- I love that when we can get crazy in bed but I never feel pressured.
- You were screaming some pretty filthy words last nights. Wanna do it again tonight?
- Because it’s your birthday today, I’ll let you do anything you want to me.
- I Just got out of a steamy shower. I’m soaking wet right now... in more ways than one.
- All I can think about is doing filthy things to you when I get home from work.
- Will you talk dirty to me next time we're together?
- Work would be a lot less boring if you could come and give me a quickie on my lunch break.