Reddit Sexting

Best Reddit Sext Subreddits: Dirty Talk Online & Hook Up

If you've spent any time browsing the Internet, chances are you've stumbled on Reddit a few times. For those who don't know, Reddit is like a gigantic forum, with boards dedicated to pretty much every topic under the sun. And of course, like any social media platform, there's a ton of topics relating to sex, hooking up and dirty chat.

That's just one of the many reasons this platform is so appealing, not to mention its high activity and vast user base of filthy and perverted individuals. It's really one of the best places for sexting anywhere online, if not the best of all. So, if you want to find hot strangers to get virtually nasty with, we've put together a list of the best sext subreddits for your enjoyment.

Why Reddit Is Great For Naughty Chat

Reddit's convenience can't be overstated. Unlike a lot of dating apps and hookup sites, everything on here is absolutely free. Joining up, searching, chatting, posting - you don't have to pay a cent to use Reddit's features. Additionally, there are boards dedicated to every sexual niche and topic on God's green earth, right down to bizarre stuff like dragons penetrating cars (yes, it's a real thing).

Not only that, but literally hundreds of millions of people visit the site every single day. It's one of the most popular platforms in the world, and Google searches for specific niches will often direct people to the relevant Subreddit at the first result. This ensures you'll never be short of potential sexting partners, even in Reddit's more obscure corners.

And even though it's not a really a dating app, it doesn't stop people using the site for that purpose. Plenty of Reddit's users utilize the platform to connect with other members in real life for all manner of casual fun and physical action. So really, Reddit's one of the most versatile platforms around. Why use other chat rooms and dating apps when you can exactly the same results for free on Reddit?

Best Sexting Subreddits

Dirty Pen Pals

If there's one thing Redditors do better than users on regular sexting apps, it's creative writing. Without generalizing, Redditors tend to be a little more on the artsy side than users on other platforms - as they prove over on the popular sub r/DirtyPenPals. This sub is a private room dedicated to text-based fantasies, allowing people to indulge their deepest desires through the medium of creative wrting.

Ads must include a sexual preference (M4F, F4F, etc), and a short description of your proposed scenario. You might roleplay the shy nerd who gets propositioned by the headmistress. Your story might involve two people joining the Mile High club. You might even play the part of the devil who's kidnapped a misbehaving succubus. Nothing is off limits here. If words alone get your heart racing, this might be the best Reddit page for you.


DirtyR4R is Reddit's go-to sub for anything NSFW. The R4R in the name stands for Redditor 4 Redditor, making this sub Reddit's closest thing to a microcosmic hookup app. Members simply post their ages, locations and their sexual preferences and then wait for the replies to roll in. Likewise, if nothing catches your eye, you're free to post your own ad in here too. With over 1 million subscribers, it's actually one of the top 10 post popular subs of all.

You won't find many pictures or videos on here since it's purely designed to facilitate meetups. All relationship types are on offer, from people who just want a one-off fuck to people looking for a long distance relationship. At any one time, you can expect around 2k members online, and there are new posts every minute on average. That's much more than you'll find on even the most popular dating apps, so make the most of this little goldmine.

Naughty From Neglect

This sub gets a little bad press because it's notorious for supporting affairs. NaughtyFromNeglect connects people who are currently in unhappy relationships so are looking for something on the side. Some people call it an affairs sub, some just use it to flirt and get their fix of sexual fulfillment behind their partners' backs. You'll need to leave your morals at the door, but once you do, you'll find a world of fun waiting on the other side.

In its own way, NaughtyFromNeglect is like the subreddit version of Ashley Madison. You can absolutely use it to find real dating partners or you can use it just for sexting purposes. The sub has around 100k subscribers and around 200 people active at any given time. If you're in the mood for misbehaving, or if you want to chat with ladies who aren't exactly single, NaughtyFromNeglect is the number one sub to make it happen.

Dirty Snapchat

If there's one app whose sole identity is based around sexting, it's Snapchat. Ever since its creation in 2012, Snapchat has become the number one platform to exchange nudes with other horny people, but everyone knows that finding sexy locals on the app isn't exactly easy. To fill this gap, a ton of sites have popped up catering to the world of Snapchat usernames, and there's no better place to find them than r/DirtySnapchat.

The sub's description says it all: "The best place to find real people who want to get dirty on Snapchat." Users post their usernames, ages, locations and sexual desires so that other people can add them to their Snapchat friends list right away. The girls on here aren't expecting friendly chat, so you don't have to worry about making small talk. Just scroll through posts, meet new people and start Snapchat sexting as soon as you get a response.

[Your Location] R4R

The R4R (Redditor 4 Redditor) name actually extends to a ton of different subreddits. While the original DirtyR4R is the most popular sub of the whole group, the subcategories make it easier to find local partners for sexting and in real life fun. There are a huge number of R4R subs, so you'll need to do a little searching to find the one that caters to your area. Here are some examples:

  • R4R30Plus
  • R4RSeattle
  • SFR4R (San Francisco)
  • R4RMelbourne
  • R4RCanada
  • HoustonR4R
  • Euro4Euro
  • R4RMidwest

The easiest route is to hit up Reddit's search bar and search for your nearest city. If there's no sub that caters to it, then broaden your horizons by your state or country. Even if you live in the middle of nowhere, there'll still be a suitable sub to join.

Dirty Kik Pals

Much like the Snapchat Subreddit, r/DirtyKikPals is a place to meet people who do their sexting through the Kik app. Next to Snapchat, Kik is one of the most popular places for sex talk online, and this Subreddit is basically a huge list of available usernames. Users post their age, location and their Kik tag and you're free to take the reins and run with it.

You'll need to put a little effort in to stand out since the site is so popular. Users need to describe themselves a little and photos and very much encouraged. If you just poster a username and nothing else, there's not much for other people to latch onto. When posting your own ads (and this goes for every sub on this list), always put your best foot forward.

Real Girls

The best place for real women on the Internet. That's the words of the r/RealGirls subreddit. This site is nothing but an endless collection of nudes from amateur posters. None of the content is stolen from the Internet. It's all very much exclusive content you won't find on any other site. All photos are run through image-screening software to ensure they're legit.

And any site that's overflowing with real, horny women is going to be a hotbed for sexting, dating and hookups. Not only do these ladies love showing themselves off, but since they're all amateur posters, you've got a much higher chance of actually interacting with them than you would with an amateur pornstar. RealGirls is an amateur hottie paradise, so get in line to find endless sexting opportunities.


Is there any type of woman that loves attention more than hotwives? For those not in the know, hotwives are married women who've been consent by their partner to pursue extramarital hookups. The r/Hotwife sub, then, features a massive selection of promiscuous beauties who are looking for their next casual relationship.

Doesn't matter if it's sex or sexting, Hotwife has a massive 1.1 million subscribers, making it the most active hotwife site on the Internet today. You'll find hot photos and videos of real hotwives in action, as well as real life personals from couples looking for their next bedroom partner. There's also a ton of virtual fun on offer too.

Wife Sharing

If there's one thing swingers love, it's showing off their sexy wives. While r/WifeSharing isn't a dating or hook up sub, it still offers plenty of sexting opportunities if you play your cards right. The sub is full of husbands (and the wives themselves) posting erotic content of themselves, and the vast majority of themselves love nothing more than some personal interaction.

While the majority of content is pussy and tits shots, there's a ton of posts from those in the wife-sharing community who are interesting in indulging their thirst for new partners. Naturally, this begins with sexting, so follow the link up above and jump into this world of cum-hungry wives.

AskReddit After Dark

AskReddit is Reddit's equivalent of a 'general' board. It's a chat room for mundane things, like 'what video game is a perfect ten?' and other boring stuff. However, r/AskRedditAfterDark is the NSFW version, with pretty much every topic revolving around sex, hooking up or sharing wild fantasies - and it's the ideal place to meet new people on the hunt for sexting.

It's not purely about sexting by any means, but the sub is basically a huge collection of horny people ready to hear about the sexual adventures of other members. The fact it's NOT dedicated to sexting is what makes it such a great sub to meet new friends, because there's a vast range of people, characters and personalities on offer. Occasionally, yo'll meet your ideal sexting buddy when you least expect it.

Taking Your Conversation To Other Apps

For all its perks, Reddit can be kind of limiting in terms of exchanging messages. There's no option for things like video chat, voice notes, and you can't even swap pictures on there. If it's pure dirty talking you want, you'll be fine, but it's sometimes a good idea to transpose your sexy conversation onto a completely different platform for a number of reasons.

The first is that human connection. When you move over to a more personal platform, your sexting partner will see you as a real person and not just a name on a screen. The second reason, like we mentioned, is that it opens up more avenues for dirty talk. You can also go so far with text messages, but video and voice calling adds a new layer of excitement to your virtual sexual activities.

Staying Safe In Reddit Chat Rooms

Swapping erotic messages can be a whole lot of fun, but always keep safety in mind at all times. Remember, you're chatting with a real life person on the other side of the screen, and those people might not always be the people they say they are. Sex chat rooms are a magnet for scammers and undesirables, so it pays to keep your wits about you.

We know it's easy to get carried away with your sexual urges, and that's very much encouraged, but ensure that your private messages don't include any personal information about yourself. Never use your real name, don't give out your real address and try to show as little identifiable features as possible. Likewise, if it's real life casual sex you want, ensure the person is genuine before meeting up in person.