Gay Sexting

Been chatting wth a hot guy recently? Want to impress him? Want to make him go wild with desire for you, even if it's just through words alone? Good, because you're in the right place. If you're looking to take your sexting conversation to the next level, we've put together a detailed guide that'll get your chat partners hard as a rock in no time - and give your imagination a little workout at the same time.

If you've spent any time in the online dating scene, you'll know just how important sexting is in today's world. It's so intertwined with hookup culture that sexting is basically the modern version of foreplay, so it pays to know how to handle yourself. First, you need to learn a few golden rules, then you'll need to arm yourself with a few pre-prepared texts to blow his mind. Here's everything you need to know to become a gay sexting guru.

Turn Him On With Hot Gay Chat

It's all well and good having hundreds of planned text messages as ammunition, but you need to know which messages work for the particular partner you're chatting with. Not every guy is going get turned on by the same thing, so first you have to figure out their likes, preferences and fantasies before diving in with the messages. Plan the work then work the plan.

So whether you're talking with hot guys through a messaging or sexting app, it's crucial to keep in mind a few ground rules before you get going. If you want to build the sexual tension to a massive and satisfying conclusion, follow these 6 golden sexting tips.

Take it slow

No one wants to jump right in to the main event. Sexting doesn't always follow the same patterns as regular sex, especially if you're a fan of good ol' quickies. With real life sex, the physical proximity to your partner is enough to get the blood pumping. However, you don't have that advantage with sexting, so you have to gradually build things up with words.

So, if you're in the mood for virtual fun, don't just tell your dirty talk companion you want to stick your dick in their ass or send racy photos right from the word go. First, plant the seed of sexy fun in their mind and let the conversation naturally steer in your intended direction.

Suggestion is everything

Because the imagination is such a powerful tool, the idea of sex is often better than the act itself. With sexting, you can use this little psychological hack to your advantage because you can let the other person's mind do the hard work for you. All it needs from you is a little suggestion of naughtiness. Plant the seed and let it grow.

For example, something like "do you know my favorite part of you is?" will get the message across quite clearly, but also leaves enough wiggle room for the other person to make some suggestions of their own. You can get much more explicit as the dirty talk progresses, but vagueness is always better than bluntness.

Go beyond the written word

If a picture can say a thousand words, a naked picture can say a million. You'll spend a ton of time texting with your partner(s)via text, but sexy pics will add some life and character to your sexting conversations. And in keeping the above point in mind, suggestive media is always way more effective than outright explicit ones.

It's not just photos you should be sending either. Modern sites and apps offer multiple interactive ways to connect with other users, including voice chat, video chat, phone sex and more. Pictures are great, but voice clips and videos will elevate your sexting fun to new heights.

Listen to them

The most important thing in sexting conversations is to listen to your partner. When you're in full swing, it's very easy to get lost with your own ideas. When your erection gets a monopoly on your blood supply, we have a natural tendency to steer the conversation towards our own fantasies. Don't do this, because it's kinda selfish and could ruin the overall vibe.

Instead, work with what's coming at you. Your partner's natural wants and needs will come out in their sexts, and since they've chosen you as a sexting partner, you have an obligation to indulge their desires. Likewise, your partner will do the same with you. Listening will usually get you better results than doing all the talking.

Stay present

In line with the above, don't let your own fantasies dominate the conversation. Your dirty sexting session should be a two-way street, so it's important to stay present and work with the messages in front of you rather than the messages you WANT from your partner. The easy way to remember this is to use the classic improv mantra - "yes, and..."

It doesn't matter if you get a little bit carried away, but if you get the sense your sexting session is more catered to you than your partner, then it's time to switch things up. Your sexting buddies should get just as much pleasure out of the session than you.

Use creative terms

There's only so many times you can use terms like dick, cock and cum. Hearing these too often can lessen their impact, so it's a good idea to surprise your partner with a little more creative phrases. There are no shortage of terms to describe the act of gay fucking; shaft, glans, deepthroat, lip service, climax, release, facial, anal creampie - go wild with it.

Don't worry if you're not the greatest wordsmith of all time, because these terms will naturally come to your as you're talking. If you're struggling, just search the Internet for gay sex synonyms and you'll find thousands. Don't be afraid to get a little humorous with your terms too.

Gay Sexting Examples

The following posts should give you some ideas of what to tell the next hot stud you match with. Be sure to talk to the person normally for a while before jumping right into the sexting,

Gay Sexy Messages

These sexting messages are for those hot guys you're desperate to ravage at the first opportunity. If you've just made a hot new match on Grindr and you're looking to kickstart the conversation with a bang, these messages will help tease them the right away.

1. I can't stop thinking about how you touched me last weekend; I keep replaying it in my head at work.
2. Your mouth must have been gifted by a magic fairy – I tingle every time I think of you touching me.
3. I don't need any dinner tonight when dessert is waiting for me in the form of you.
4. Today I figured out that the sexual tension in my life can be released – by you!
5. If you were in front of me right now, we would not be flirting baby. We'd too busy getting physical.
6. Do you want to know what we're doing later stud? You will have to come over and find out!
7. It's Wednesday – hump day! Does that mean we can hump tonight?
8. Do you have any secret fantasies that I can help make real?
9. My lips, your body – my living room – tonight.
10. You might want to take the morning off from work – we're going to have a very late night.

Gay Flirty Messages

Sometimes you want to subtly imply your interest without being too explicit about the whole thing. These gay sexting examples are perfect for guys who want to keep things on the conservative side but still get their point across.

1. I hear your Zodiac sign is highly sexual. We should test that theory out in your bedroom.
2. I could use some help putting on this suntan lotion – you can help me shower it off later.
3. I just read chocolate can boost a guy's mood. No wonder you remind me of a sweet candy bar.
4. What would I do if I was there with you? No comment 😉
5. If you're having a hard time – I mean a really hard time – I can help soften the blow.
6. I had a banana for lunch today and it reminded me of how much I like you:)
7. You are not very good at pretending we don't have sexual energy, stud.
8. It's hot in my apartment right now – I'm going to take everything off.
9. Do me a favor – when you come over today, don't wear any underwear.
10. Licking a lollypop right now – and for some reason, I'm thinking of you!

Gay Filthy Messages

Ready to get real dirty? These filthy posts are perfect for when your sexy conversation has reached its crescendo. Think of these lines as the messages that'll eventually lead to the moneyshot.

1. I can't concentrate because of this hot guy I'm texting right now. If you could lick me anywhere – what part of my body would it be?
2. I'm going to take the easy way to your heart - through your back door.
3. Don't worry about my real name - you can just call me daddy.
4. If we were in your car right now, where would you let me touch you?
5. What's the dirtiest thing you have ever thought of doing with a guy? Can I volunteer to be him?
6. I keep having this daydream that one of us is inside one another – in some way 🙂
7. Good morning! I just woke up with something hard and pointy in my underwear. I wonder why?
8. When you come over tonight, just open my bedroom door and jump in.
9. I feel like something is missing when I look down – namely you between my legs.
10. I need to confess something – I used lube last night and though of you just before getting busy.

Gay Boyfriend Material Messages

Once you've ploughed enough hot guys, you'll eventually find the hot guy you want to make your own. These messages still evoke pure sexual desire and intimacy, but also help instill an emotional connection in there too.

1. My friends say you are too good looking for words. I tend to agree babe.
2. Of all the hot guys in the world, you might be the hottest.
3. There's nothing better than lying with you in bed post-orgasm.
4. Do you know who the sexiest guy in the world is? Look at the reflection on your phone babe. Woof!
5. Is it hard to be burdened with such crazy good looks?
6. My lips are so dry – too bad you are not here to moisten them up!
7. You look fantastic today. I know because you look incredible every day!
8. I’ve been giving your body a long, hard look in my mind all day.
9. Would you let me lick your ears and whisper your name softly?
10. What if I pretend to be a plumber tonight and drain your main?

Gay Feel Good Messages

Hitting your sext partner with a heartfelt compliment is a great way to get them hot and bothered. For an ego boost with a side of dirty talk, try these feel good sexting messages.

1. You could easily have doubled for Prince Charming – seriously. Your just too handsome!
2. I've had to wait a long time for someone like you to come along.
3. I may need to be taken to the ER for oxygen – because you truly take my breath away.
4. I made your picture into my phone wallpaper – I can't stop looking at you!
5. I think you need a head to toe massage tonight – in your birthday suit with a happy ending.
6. Whenever you walk into the room, I've noticed it goes silent. People are stunned by your looks.
7. Can you tell me your secret for developing such a hot behind?
8. Heaven must be missing an angel because you look like you fell out of the sky!
9. Didn't I see you on the cover of this month's GQ magazine?
10. I bet you are way better in the sack than my fantasies of you. What do you think?